Strategies for strengthening the family from the perspective of moral-Islamic teachings and psychology

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 Strengthening the family and resolving spouses' conflicts is one of the most important and vital issues in the present age. The fundamental question is, what are the most important Islamic, moral, and psychological strategies that can increase family strength and reduce conflict? This research is one of the qualitative researches and with the descriptive-analytical method, while explaining the inferred and extractable solutions from Islamic, moral and psychological sources, he has pointed out the most important ones. The results of this study show that women's commitment to maps equal to their capacities, commitment to social norms, adherence to the rules of interaction with the spouse, increasing homogeneity in the family, sincere and empathetic mutual sympathies, mutual appreciation, ignoring the spouse's fault, meeting needs Spouse's sexual and emotional relationships, minimal contact with strangers, and interaction based on normative morality with the spouse are among the most important strategies for strengthening the family and reducing conflict in spouses' relationships

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  • Receive Date: 16 August 2020
  • Revise Date: 05 October 2020
  • Accept Date: 09 March 2021

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